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BODY & SOUL: That New, New

Let’s face it. Most relationships get boring really fast, especially when you spend the first few months staring at each other like a daydreaming second grader who gets sent to the corner. Well, here are three ways to keep your relationship hot and spicy in the bedroom.

1. Playing Dress Up - Send your wife, girlfriend or jump-off to the store to buy some new sleep attire. Better yet, find time to set up a date and the both of you can go on a naughty shopping spree. This will add excitement to your sex life and spark some spontaneous ideas which may lead to some PDA [Public Displays of Affection]

2. Rough Her Up - Fried Chicken is delicious, but if you eat it every night for a year then even grand ma’s Southern Fried Classic will make your stomach turn. Same thing goes for sex. If every night when you make love to her, it’s slow and sensual, try giving it to her hard and dirty, and vice versa. She probably wants this, but is too much of a lady to tell you she does.

3. The Movies - Adult movies are a cool way, to learn new things, and get your lover in the mood. Working in corporate America has taught me that women think about sex just as much as men, so using an adult movie can be just what a stale relationship calls for. Be sure to pick a classy adult movie--not one with edited clips of the same scene featuring men and women with bullet holes and ashy elbows--and your night should turn out fine. -Xilla

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shikema

March 19, 2008, 09:04 AM EST

like omg, this ya gurl kema just saying that everything on here is true believe it.

BlogXilla

March 19, 2008, 11:12 AM EST

Thanks Kema, It's a lot of stuff you can to keep the relationship popping.

August 16, 2008, 11:43 AM EST

lol, ashy elbows and bullet holes.  I can dig your advice but then I'm wondering why there are only 3.  it's all good though because some people have to start somewhere.  I'm a little greedy, i want more.

Stryker

August 22, 2008, 01:42 PM EST

i use those three give me a few more so i can add some spice to the scenario

ludi sakan

October 28, 2008, 01:03 PM EST

I am for all of these suggestions. However I love talking dirty, its a major turn on for me.

Delicate Beauty 35

October 28, 2008, 07:17 PM EST

Wow! I am so surprised that there weren't more comments to this blog than there were!! I guess everyone has a great sex life and relationship already!! lol  I would consider myself to be very sensual an sexual so I would love to add my input... " Usher" has most recently said it best.... Trade Places!!! I love that song. Ladies, we have to do more to make our men( when I have one.. lol) feel like they are going to scream out loud. Use props in your bedroom... I have done a couple of creative things...with my rocking chair. Use your imagination.. He's in the rocking chair.. rocking....ok. I hope you get it.  :) And talking nasti is always a plus like ludi sakan said. Tell each other what you want and HOW you want it and HOW LONG you want it THAT WAY!! There is nothing worse than STOPPING TOOOO SOON!! Make it last...( Yummi ;) Some things you can't do to or for everyone so PLEASE be mindful of that and most of all BE SAFE!!!

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