The reigning Grind Queen, Sensation, grinded a link to an article about a 23-year-old guy living in Munich, Germany. He wanted to know how to write a girl who has nothing on her profile. Well, I thought some of the Grinders might have this same question. First thing you want to do is find a common interest.
If there is a song on her page send her a message about the song. If you don’t know the artist or don’t know what to say about the artist, try a quick search of Google and let her know a bit of dirt on the artist who sings her favorite song of the moment. Music is and easy way to break the ice, so if you write the right thing you may be able to cross her i's and dot her t’s if you know what I mean.
If you find yourself still looking for something to write, you can always look towards her pictures to fuel your conversation. Compliment her on her eyes, hair style, or her smile. A genuine stroke of a person’s ego is almost guaranteed to get you a reply. One thing you must remember is to make your message stand out. If she is a pretty girl its safe to say she receives hundreds of messages from men just saying "Hi, hey shawty, what it do," or "D*mn you’re fine."
How do you get in with a member of the opposite sex that you find online? -Xilla